50 yrs+ old, wiser but still lots of fun- can I find a man?

Yes,my wise 50 year old friend-

You can find love after 50!

Attitude is a huge piece of it. If you come across as someone who with a passionate, active life and a charming, vivacious character- you will attract men! Lean how to flirt and be naturally sexy.

A positive mental attitude can make all the difference as well- with a pinch of patience thrown in. You are seeking someone special in your life and are probably far more discerning now, so give it time. You shouldn't have to settle.

Do not act desperate- men can sense this a mile away! Talk negative stuff with your friends, not a new date.

It doesn't hurt to use every physical attribute you have. A good healthy diet, and regular exercise can only help you in every way. You will look and feel healthy and great. New form wear lingerie can also do miracles in certain physical departments.

Let's face it, men are visual animals- so it is up to you to look your very best. Don't dress like you are in your 70's or in your 20's. Dress to accentuate your body type and your personality, but in a way you will feel comfortable- yet attractive.

Go to an image consultant to get an update on your wardrobe, and use the best hairdresser you can find- make a switch if you need to do- invest in yourself! Cover up the gray hair that is starting to show! Get an in style professional color and cut. Is it time to update your makeup and look? You can find good makeup artists at some of the better department stores.

And finally, meet men! If you never leave your house, your same group of close friends or co-workers, it is going to be pretty hard to meet anyone new. Get out there, talk and smile at people. Engage with the world!

I always suggest my match making clients use every resource possible- with a prudent, realistic attitude. We include these efforts in our match making plan.

Don't give up, and don't settle, but be realistic. And be persistent in making your dream happen! I have seen love happen in many interesting ways, so many times. It can happen for you. If I can help- let me know- we are working with lots of great male clients right now!

Warmly,

Wendy

Love Recruiter- Matchmaker